Dating someone 4 years younger
I feel very fortunate because I've found someone who's mature, responsible, dependable, and considerate.
I, and others my age who are like me, find those qualities very attractive, and an older man is likelier to possess them.
We worked together so I certainly wasn't giving him money--we made about the same.
Though there weren't that many years difference between us, it sort of bothered me.
What exactly is it then, OP, that would interest any of us in one of you?
I can't imagine how a site geared toward the old/young combo would attract anyone other than pervs and golddiggers.
I'm 44, but look 34, thanks to very good genetics and a healthy lifestyle, and I attract mostly guys in their mid 20s looking for someone a little older.
When I finally tell them the truth--that I'm old enough to be their father--they don't really care.
No, R16, but I think some examination about 'not into guys my own age' is warranted.I know lots of guys my age (40s) who are hung up on the idea that they want a 20-something boyfriend.It's just not a reasonable demand..when I dig deeper I see that they are stunted emotionally in some way, and never had that 'perfect boyfriend' when THEY were in their 20's..can't move on from that until they get some young twink to fall in love with them. I meant to add that hooking up with younger guys is a whole 'nother story.But, they tell themselves they are 'just attracted to younger guys' and they don't dig any deeper than that. Lots of young guys like older guys with big dicks, and good conversation/maturity. But it's unreasonable to believe we, at 40 something, can get ourselves a very young RELIABLE boyfriend. It does happen occasionally, and it isn't always due to money..it's RARE.Most older guys would do well to think about WHY they are attracted to what they are attracted to.